Warning Signs of a Commitment-Phobic Man
Some men are natural caregivers and love being in committed relationships. Other men are not and almost seem born to play the field. It's understandably tough for young ladies to figure out which is which and whether their current love interest is afraid of commitment or in it for the long haul. There are several tricks to employ, though, to figure out his true intentions and his inner character.
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History
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Quiz your guy on his past girlfriends. Is he the guy who had one girlfriend for all four years of high school or the guy who has dated 10 girls in the past year? Men do change, but not all that often. If he has been in long-term, committed relationships before, than he is likely to do it again. The opposite is also true.
Contact
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Does your guy call you up once a week to make plans for the weekend, or do you two talk and text every day? A friendly back and forth is important in any committed relationship. If your man seems unavailable a lot of time and you can't reach him, then he has unwittingly revealed his true intentions
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Relationships
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Does your guy have several close friends he has known forever? Is he close with his family. Men who are loyal and not afraid to build relationships usually have built them before. If your man doesn't seem to have many close friends, he may not be keen on a long-term match with you either and desires to play the field
Interest
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Does your guy show an interest in your life and your friends? Did he try to meet your family and impress your parents? Men who aren't in it for the long haul typically do not care as much about meeting your friends and knowing your family.
Signaling
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Guys who's true intention is to start a long-term relationship generally try to get that message across. If your guy tries to see you every weekend, tries to get to know you and makes an effort to understand your interests, he may be trying to tell you that he wants a committed relationship On the other hand, if he displays none of these qualities, then he might be more commitment-phobic and wish to keeping playing the field.
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tanx... I may not be that guy who longs for a serious/long term relationhip... but I'm the resposible for this... for not to hurt other's feelings.... tanx again...
