Wedding Guest Attire Rules

If the wedding invitation doesn't specify a dress code, such as black tie or cocktail attire, wear nice clothes that would be appropriate for church, or dinner at an upscale restaurant. It's a sign of respect to dress nicely for this important occasion.

White

While men may wear white shirts with their suits or tuxes, women should avoid the color. Tradition dictates that only the bride wears it.

Special Dress Codes

If the couple specifies they want you to come in shorts and flip-flops for a poolside ceremony, do as they ask, as they clearly want the wedding to be ultra-casual.

Season

Follow the fashion dictates of the season. Leave your fur stole at home for the June nuptials. Skip the backless dress for the wedding during a frigid December.

Time

What time the wedding is held also affects your outfit. Morning or afternoon weddings will call for less formal dress than one that's held at night.

Location

Consider the venue when picking your outfit. A church wedding means avoiding overly sexy, revealing clothes; looser-fitting slacks and a breezy shirt work well for a beachside event.

Weight

Chose an ensemble that flatters you, no matter what your weight or body shape. As much as you might want to show off a favorite dress, skip it if you bought it 20 pounds ago.

References

• FreeBeautyTips.org: The Perfect Wedding Guest Outfit: Ideas and Etiquette
• Essortment.com: Wedding Etiquette for Guests