- A stepchild may only be adopted if her non-custodial parent has given up parental rights, has abandoned her or is deceased.
- The rules for obtaining consent from a non-custodial parent vary from state to state, with some requiring only a written statement and others a court appearance.
- In many states, the termination of a non-custodial parent's rights also relieves her of responsibilities, such as child support and educational and medical assistance.
- Some states require that you be married to your spouse for a specified period of time before you are allowed to adopt.
- Consent for a stepchild adoption should (and legally must) be obtained from your spouse. It's also wise to consider the wishes of any child old enough to understand the situation.
- You must find out what the legal requirements are for your state and follow them carefully, in case your adoption is ever contested or challenged.












