Step-Child Adoption Facts

The remarriage of a parent can be a difficult adjustment for a child. In some cases, the stepparent forms a strong bond with his stepchild and wants to adopt her. Stepchild adoption is a serious decision that affects the whole family, and there are several different facts to consider.

Requirements

A stepchild may only be adopted if her non-custodial parent has given up parental rights, has abandoned her or is deceased.

Obtaining Consent

The rules for obtaining consent from a non-custodial parent vary from state to state, with some requiring only a written statement and others a court appearance.

Termination of Rights

In many states, the termination of a non-custodial parent's rights also relieves her of responsibilities, such as child support and educational and medical assistance.

Marriage Requirements

Some states require that you be married to your spouse for a specified period of time before you are allowed to adopt.

Family Consent

Consent for a stepchild adoption should (and legally must) be obtained from your spouse. It's also wise to consider the wishes of any child old enough to understand the situation.

Caution

You must find out what the legal requirements are for your state and follow them carefully, in case your adoption is ever contested or challenged.

References

• Child Welfare Information: Stepparent Adoption
• Stepchild Adoption

Resources

• Stepchild Adoption Checklist