Examples of a Unity Sand Ceremony
A unity sand ceremony is an alternative to the tradition of the unity candle. Like the unity candle, it symbolizes the couple coming together as one and can involve other family members or the wedding party.
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Traditional Unity Sand Ceremony
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Traditionally, the unity sand ceremony is performed while saying vows. The bride and groom each have a container of sand in different colors. After each vow, sand will be added to a central vase by the bride and groom, creating a striping effect.
Leaving Some Sand
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Some couples choose to leave a small amount of sand in their individual containers. This is meant to symbolize that although they have joined their lives, they are still individuals and retain parts of themselves.
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Involving Parents
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Much like the unity candle ceremony, many couples choose to involve their parents in a unity sand ceremony. One way to do this is to allow each parent to pick sand colors, then present them to you during the ceremony. This represents your parents made you who you are and that the families are joining.
Family Ceremonies
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Unity sand ceremonies are one way to include the children of a blended family. Allow each child to choose a sand color to contribute to the vase along with the bride and groom.
Unity Sand Ceremonies in Vow Renewal
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Unity sand ceremonies can also be used when renewing your vows. For couples with children or grandchildren, they can all get involved, and your unity sand vase will represent what has come out of your initial union.
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