Do a Bride's Parents Give a Wedding Gift?
The etiquette of weddings is changing and so are the expectations of the bride's parents. In some cases, it may be appropriate for the bride's parents to give a wedding gift. In others, it's not necessary, but it's always appreciated.
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Common Etiquette
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If the bride's parents are paying for the wedding or a portion of it, common etiquette says that giving a wedding present isn't necessary.
Modern Etiquette
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The bride's parents often give a wedding present to the newlyweds. It doesn't have to be big, as a small, thoughtful gift is acceptable.
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If the Bride's Family Isn't Paying
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If the bride's parents are not paying for the wedding or contributing financially to it, they should give a present to the newlyweds as a sign of their approval and support.
How Much Should Parents Spend?
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In terms of spending, the Emily Post Institute says that staying within your budget is expected.
Thoughtful Small Gifts
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When the bride's parents are already spending a lot on the wedding, or don't have the means to spend much, a token gift is acceptable. A present to preserve the wedding invitation, such as having it mounted and framed, is a thoughtful gift. For more crafty families, making something like a quilt, a blanket or a carved piece is another great idea.
More Substantial Gifts
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For parents who want to give something more substantial, cash is a good way to send the newlyweds off. Some parents may choose to fill out the bride and groom's china set with additional place settings. Another alternative is a gift certificate for a nice dinner or getaway weekend.
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