Proper Etiquette for a Destination Wedding

Proper etiquette for a destination wedding includes all the etiquette standard for any wedding, and includes more etiquette than some guest might expect. Destination weddings are becoming quite popular, so it is important for all guests to know the proper etiquette.

Invitation

Read the wedding invitation carefully because it will outline what the couple is paying for and what you will be responsible for paying. This is important because cost is always a factor when deciding to attend a destination wedding. It is proper etiquette to send your response card back in a timely manner.

Money

As previously stated, you will be responsible for paying a portion of the expenses to attend the destination wedding. If you cannot afford it, then you should send your regrets to the couple.

Time Frame

You will be working on the couple's time frame when you are at a destination wedding. The couple will likely have other activities planned as well, so it is up to you to make sure your flight will get you there on time and that you have enough time to check into the hotel before the festivities begin.

Your Time

The couple will expect you to want to have time to yourselves. To make their time frame, make reservations for any activities you want to participate in on your own time.

Dress

The couple may want their guests to dress a certain way. It will likely be stated on the wedding invitations and their request should be followed.

Gifts

Most couples do not expect gifts if you are paying to attend a destination wedding. If you are not paying much for the destination wedding, then a wedding gift on par with what you can afford will be expected.

References

• The Knot