What Are the Rules for Getting a Divorce Without a Lawyer?

Getting a divorce is an emotionally difficult experience that can also be financially damaging. Generally, you have to hire a lawyer and pay her to negotiate a deal between you and your ex-spouse. But there is a way to get a divorce without having to spend a lot of money or hire a lawyer. You can purchase the divorce forms and file them yourself if you and your spouse meet the requirements that must be satisfied.

Grounds for Divorce

You and your ex-spouse have to be in agreement when it comes down to the dividing your property, as well as any other issues in the divorce. If you cannot come to terms on the issues, then you will have to hire a lawyer.

Residency Requirement

It is a good idea to file for divorce in the state in which you were married. Some states require that a person seeking a divorce must have lived in that state for at least 90 days prior to filing for a divorce.

Filing Forms

You can get divorce forms from your local library or courthouse. These forms are free, but you can also purchase a divorce kit online for around $30. Follow the instructions exactly in filling out the paperwork. After you have completed the paperwork, you will have to file the forms at the courthouse. The filing fee is $100. Make sure to bring a driver's license and any other legal documents that are pertinent to your case.

Default Divorce

If you are citing abandonment as the reason for a divorce, you can also do it yourself. You can only cite abandonment if your ex-spouse has been gone for over six months.

Notifying Your Ex

You must send your ex a copy of the divorce forms. Make sure that you send the forms via registered mail, as your ex will have to sign a document stating that she received the papers.

State Rules

Every state has guidelines and rules that have to be followed when filing for divorce. Make sure to review the laws in the state in which you live.

References

• DIY divorce information
• Divorce kit