Signs of a Troubled Teen

The teen years are fraught with challenges for parents and even teens themselves. This is an important period of self discovery, growing independence, adventure and reflection. A few bumps in the road are normal for even well-adjusted teens. Parents should continue to provide guidance, encouragement and support. When bumpy periods become prolonged or unmanageable, it may be time to seek outside support.

School Performance

While some teens may have academic trouble with a new subject or when heavily involved in new activities, a pattern of failure is cause for alarm. Parents should monitor school performance and attendance for any irregularities.

Appearance

It is normal for teens to explore identity and appearance styles. Parents should watch for drastic changes, such as excessive tattoos or piercing, dark or overly provocative clothing and declines in personal hygiene habits.

Withdrawal

Teens in trouble often withdraw from friends, family and activities. Parents should look out for unexplained changes in friends, schedules and spending.

Mood Swings

Some mood swings are to be expected with hormonal changes and peer group pressure. If the mood swings become extreme, or if your teen seems sullen, angry, depressed or anxious for more than a few days at a time, parents should be concerned.

Violent Behavior

Teens engaging in violent (physical, verbal) and/or unlawful behavior need immediate intervention.

Drug Use

Parents should be aware that teens are increasingly abusing prescription drugs found in their own homes.