Hostess Gift Etiquette

Wine is a great hostess gift.

Everyone loves a good party. But along with joyful anticipation comes a bit of stress concerning gifts for your host. While modern etiquette doesn't necessitate bringing a gift to a gathering, it's always appreciated. Better to err on the side of generosity. Here are a number of suggestions that will ensure a warm welcome.

Wine

For a dinner party, the most traditional gift is wine. Chances are, you won’t know what dishes are on the menu, so simply choose a bottle you think your host will enjoy, even if it’s not going to be served with the meal.

Food

Bring home-baked or bakery-made desserts such as cookies or brownies to a party. But be aware that the host may have already planned a special dessert. If this is a concern, bring wrapped gourmet food; anything from smoked sausage to gourmet BBQ sauce. This way your host isn't obligated to serve the food at the party, but can save it for later use.

Flowers

Flowers and plants are always a great choice. Fresh flowers are sure to brighten anyone’s home. If you choose a plant for a gift, you may want to consider bamboo or a succulent, which are both low-maintenance as well as attractive.

Candles

Candles are also a thoughtful gift because they fit into any décor. Scented candles can be delightful, but avoid those with overpowering fragrances, as they may not agree with the sensibilities of your host. Including a candleholder or tray to catch wax is a nice touch.

Other Gifts

Though these are all time-tested gifts, don't afraid to depart from tradition, especially if you know the host well. Don’t feel constricted by the type of event you’re attending. Whatever you bring will be appreciated. And don’t forget, one of the best gifts you can give to your host or hostess is a reciprocating invitation.