Facts on Cheating

Cheating can be described as anything from sharing a kiss to engaging in a form of sexual activity to sharing an emotional connection with a person outside of your relationship. No matter how you define the term, its definition essentially means the same across the board: sharing your mind, body or spirit with a person other than your spouse or romantic partner in such a way that the activity could be perceived as a threat to your relationship and must be kept hidden in order to be maintained. Popular television host, Dr. Phil, put it best when he said, "Cheating is engaging in any activity that you would not otherwise engage in if your spouse were present."

Effects

Cheating is a betrayal that many people cannot overcome. Not only does cheating break down the fabric of a relationship, but it also breeds mistrust for years to come. In the end, infidelity can only lead to the destruction of trust between you and your partner and the demise of your relationship.

Types

Having an emotional connection with a person other than your spouse or romantic partner is another form of infidelity (also known as emotional infidelity) that is just as destructive as having sex with a person outside of your marriage or relationship.

Considerations

Infidelity is a threat to intimacy that creates a distance and disconnection between the cheater and his spouse or romantic partner that many times cannot be repaired.

Theories/Speculation

According to M. Gary Neuman, men frequently cheat because they no longer feel respected or valued by their spouse.

Misconceptions

Not all infidelity is about sex or lust. Many times, it is about how the other person makes the cheater feel.

Famous Ties

Meg Ryn was busted for having an extramarital affair with Russell Crowe while filming "Proof of Life."

Warning

Infidelity can lead to the transfer of sexually transmitted diseases if the cheater does not use protection.