How Old Should Your Daughter Be Before Shaving Her Legs?

Leg shaving can feel like a rite of passage for many teens and preteens.

Suggesting the Idea May Make Her Self-Conscious

If you encourage your daughter to start shaving her legs too early, she may become self-conscious about something that hadn't mattered to her before. If it's a topic that she doesn't bring up herself, making her aware that her leg hair is noticeable could have a negative impact on her self-esteem.

She Might Be Uncomfortable With The Way She Looks

If your daughter brings up the idea of shaving her legs on her own, she is probably ready to start shaving her legs. Kids at school can be cruel, and visible leg hair is often the target of teasing. The moment a girl becomes self-conscious about the appearance of her legs, it usually means she's ready to start grooming them.

Bottom Line

If your daughter is old enough to independently shave her legs (that is, she is at an age that you feel can be trusted with a razor), you should allow her to shave her legs. However, if she never brings up the idea herself, regardless of what her age is, don't bring it up yourself.

References

• Parents Connect: Preteens and Shaving Legs
• Scholastic: 10 Ways to Teach Preteen Hygiene