Should I Go With My Daughter to a Gyno Exam?
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Your Presence May Make Her Uncomfortable
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You want your daughter to feel free to ask the gynecologist any questions she may be embarrassed or afraid to ask you, and she may be hesitant to do so with you there. In addition, if your daughter is shy, the presence of another person in the room--even a parent--may make her uncomfortable.
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She Needs to Feel Safe
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You want your daughter to feel secure and as comfortable as possible during her first gynecological exam. Your presence may reassure her and make her feel more at ease, especially if she is unfamiliar with the doctor.
Bottom Line
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Ask your daughter if she would like you to be present during the exam. If she says no, you should feel safe enough with your doctor that it doesn't upset you to leave them alone together. Make sure your daughter knows you are there to support her in any way she needs.
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