How Much Money Should You Give for a Baptism Gift?

Money is not a traditional gift for a baptism, but can be given.

Give A Non-Monetary Gift

Gifts made of silver are traditional at a baptism, especially given by the godparents to the infant being baptized. These can include silver spoons, cups, and picture frames. Charm bracelets and add-a-pearl necklaces are also common gifts, with the gift giver adding to the gift every year. Many people give spiritual books or Bibles inscribed to the person being baptized, but because this is so common, it might be best to avoid it.

No Gift Is Necessary at a Baptism

Unless you are the godparent of the child being baptized, no gift is necessary at a baptism or a christening, especially if you have already given a gift to the baby or his parents at a baby shower or on another occasion.

Bottom Line

If you choose to give money as a baptism gift, it is not inappropriate, but it is not required or usual. There is no set gift amount expected or considered appropriate. If you want to give money, consider giving the child being baptized a small denomination savings bond rather than cash.

References

• Sentimental Values: Etiquette for Christening Gifts
• Inviting Smiles: Baptism Gift Etiquette