Relating to Family

Identifying as gay in today's society is easier than it was decades ago. However, some people may find the news hard to swallow at first -- especially the people who are closest to you. Learn what...

You have lived most of your life while keeping a deep, dark secret. You may have been married, and you may have children; but in your heart of hearts, you know you are gay. Telling your family...

Making the choice to come out at high school can be one of the most difficult decisions young gay men or lesbians make. If you are debating whether or not you will come out to friends or loved...

"Coming out" to your parents means that you have now self-identified as a lesbian or gay man. Initiating this discussion with parents can be nerve-racking. It can also be the start of a more open...

Coming out as gay or lesbian is different when you're in your late 20s than it would be earlier - after all, you have an established identity and a circle of friends, lovers and family members who...

Coming out is an ongoing process. However the first time you come out, can be the hardest. As difficult as it may be, it will be equally relieving and affirming. It can also mean that some of your...

Regardless of the relationship you have with your parents, coming out to them may be very difficult. It's natural that your parent or parents have expectations for their children. They imagine...

It's important to get support for yourself so that you can be fully supportive and loving to your gay child. It's especially important if this news came as a shock to you.

When your gay or lesbian child comes out to you, be careful not to let your own feelings overshadow his or her need for support.

Coming out is a process that continues over time. The support and concern provided by a brother or sister can be a valuable resource.