The Emotional Development in a Six-Month-Old Baby

Your six-month-old loves to interact

Your six-month-old baby's ability to move, communicate and interact seems to increase daily. Her personality is emerging, and she wants to share it with you. There are certain social behaviors you can expect at this age. However, every baby develops a bit differently, so don't fret if she is still working on a particular skill. And always share any concerns with your child's doctor.

Sitting Up

Sitting gives your baby an exciting new perspective

Most babies begin to sit up unassisted around six months. While this is clearly a physical milestone, it has social implications as well. Your baby has a new view of his world. He is able to participate with the family more independently. If you haven't already, let him practice his new skill in a high chair, and include him in family meals. Let him listen and participate in the conversation.

Communication

By six months, your baby should be experimenting with different sounds. Expect to hear long vowel sounds, such as aaa, and eee. Listen to your baby's sounds in context. Does she use a particular sound when hungry or tired? Try to reinforce her communication accordingly. Your baby is also learning reciprocal conversation. Respond to her sounds and pause to let her speak. Your six-month-old should recognize her name now. Call her by name to get her attention and to open conversations.

Gestures

Gesturing allows your baby to communicate his needs. Your six-month-old should be reaching for desired items--which is probably most anything at this point. He should also be waving his arms at you in excitement during play. Reinforce your baby's physical communication by responding to his gestures. This is also an important to time to begin "baby-proofing." Keep hot, sharp or otherwise dangerous items out of baby's grasp. If he can reach it, it will likely end up in his mouth.

Eye Contact

At six months, your baby is learning that he can communicate simply by turning his head and making eye contact. You are both falling in love with each other, so hold his gaze and enjoy. Practice joint attention by catching your baby's eye and directing his attention to an interesting object. Label the object as you point. For example, direct his attention to the family dog and say, "Dog." He will begin to associate the name with the object.

Responding to Strangers

Your six-month-old may be responding differently to strangers. She may even respond differently to loved ones, such as grandparents, that she doesn't see on a daily basis. This is a normal behavior, but it can be upsetting. Let your baby get comfortable on her own time. Don't push her to interact, but allow her to observe from your arms. Smile and talk with the person. Show baby that it is okay. Allow baby to lead the interaction. Tell grandma it will be worth the wait.

References

• "The Baby Book." William Sears, M.D., and Martha Sears, R.N. 2003
• Parents: Month-by Month Guide