Ethiopian Cultural Weddings

Wedding attire in Ethiopia is similar to that of the US.

Ethiopian weddings follow both traditional and modern rituals. Family is a large part of wedding preparations and ceremonies on the special day. Attire is similar to that of the US, with men in either tuxedos or suits and the bride wearing a white wedding gown. Rituals vary slightly between subcultures.

Arranged Marriages

Traditionally, arranged marriages were the norm. The tradition is become less and less practiced, though, particularly in urban area. It's common for the male's family to present the female's family with a dowry. The amount of the dowry depends on the wealth of both families. The dowry can include livestock or other valued items apart from money.

Wedding Plans

The elders of both families decide where the wedding will take place. Christian ceremonies usually take place in an Orthodox church. They also prepare the food and drink for the ceremony; the families will brew wine and beer, and cook the wedding food.

Ceremonial Foods

Ethiopian wedding foods are spicy and largely made up of meats and vegetables. Beef, chicken and lamb is eaten along with injera on special occasions. Traditionally, the beef was eaten raw, however modern Ethiopians prefer to have their meats cooked. Pork is not typically seen at an Ethiopian wedding.

The coffee ceremony is a traditional ritual performed at special occasions. Green coffee beans are roasted over a fire and then ground with a mortar and pestle. The powder is then placed in a black pot called a jebena, and water is added. After brewing, the coffee is served with kolo, or whole-grain barley. Tej, or honey wine, may also be served during a wedding. Tej is flavored with gesho plant leaves and twigs and poured from a tube-shaped flask.

Oromo Ceremonies

Oromo people make preparations for the wedding for a month before the occasion. On the couple's wedding day, relatives and guests will assemble at the bride's and groom's houses. The groom dresses for the wedding and is blessed by his relatives. He then picks up the bride from her house. The bride and groom meet at the entrance of her house amongst beating drums.

Amhara Ceremonies

Amongst the Amhara people, the bride and groom's families are responsible for arranging marriages. A civil ceremony solidifies the contract and a priest may or may not be present. An oral contract or "temporary marriage" is made before witnesses. The woman will be paid housekeeper's wages during the marriage. While the wife is not eligible for inheritance, the couple's children are. While divorce is allowed in Amhara marriages, it must be negotiated first.

References

• Every Culture: Ethiopia
• Video Babylon: Ethiopian Marriage Ceremonies
• Africa Guide: Weddings