Date Etiquette for Women
One of the problems with dating in modern culture is that the rules of courtship don't apply as stringently as they once did. Rather than having certain hoops to jump through and certain steps to take, each individual is sort of left up to their own devices. However, there are some basic rules of dating etiquette that women should be sure to follow.
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Timing
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Time is one of the most important parts of setting up a date. Both parties need to agree when they'll meet up, with an expectation to keep to that schedule. If you're going to be late, then it's common courtesy to call your date and inform him of your tardiness and the reason for it. Whenever possible, plan to show up at least 5 to 10 minutes early to avoid the problem of being late.
Appearance
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Women generally spend a lot of time on their appearance to try to give a good first impression. It's important that you don't go overboard though, and that you dress appropriately for the date. For instance, just because your stiletto heels make your calves look amazing, wearing them with a short skirt may give the wrong impression if you're meeting up with someone new for coffee. Tailor your appearance to the occasion so that your date knows you put in time and effort, but not so much that he gets the wrong idea.
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Location
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Location is a very important question when discussing a date. It's important that women know where the date is supposed to be, but also that they keep their common sense about them. For instance, meeting your date at his house gives a certain impression, and it takes a certain risk. Women should never meet up at a guy's house on a first date, and they should always meet up in a public place just to be safe.
Cash
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In the past it was considered the man's responsibility to pay the tab for the date, but times have changed and that question can often be disputed. It's generally assumed that whoever asks for the date will pay, but if you can find a way to slip this question in before you go out with someone do so. If you're not sure, make sure that you bring enough to cover your part of the check.
Decisions
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It's always a good idea for a woman to share her opinion and to take part in the decisions of a date. Help set the time, pick the place and set the tone. However, a date is a mutual experience and it's important that the woman not take over all of the decisions. Exercise some give and take, but make sure that your feelings are considered so that you can have as good a time as your date for the night.
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