Graduation Etiquette & Robes

Yes, there is such a concept as "graduation etiquette."

Graduation is a milestone in a young person's life. It is a moment of pride and accomplishment. It is a day of happiness and hope. But there are some graduation etiquette rules that should be followed before and during the event. Brush up on the rules of the day to make sure you are looking your best and turning your tassel with pride.

Inviting Guests

Often schools limit the number of graduation invitations given to students. For example, you may only receive six invitations to your high school graduation, which will prevent you from inviting all of your relatives. Etiquette gurus at The Emily Post Institute report that this is a "common dilemma." To work through this challenge, The Emily Post Institute recommends explaining the limited number of invitations to your relatives and then drawing names to decide who gets to attend. Another idea is to "invite one member from each set of grandparents to attend," recommends the Post website.

Getting Ready

Do not wear your graduation gown in the form you received it. Most likely, you received it wrinkled or at least a gown creased by folding. Make sure you iron your gown or steam it to get all of the wrinkles out. Wrinkles are distracting, and the student who is at the top of the class will look like he does not care if he is wearing a wrinkled robe. Also, keep in mind the material of the gown and adjust the heat settings on your iron.

Applauding the Graduates

Follow the procedures for applause listed in the graduation program. Often the master of ceremonies at a graduation asks that applause be withheld until all names have been called and all students have walked across the stage to receive their diplomas. Applauding for every student extends an already-long ceremony and may prevent the next graduate's name from being heard clearly.

Turning Your Tassel

Do not turn the tassel until you are directed to do so. Turing the tassel is the last step in a graduation ceremony that marks you as an official graduate. Make sure that your tassel is on the right side of your cap. You will then turn it to the left.

Graduation Gifts

The Emily Post Institute reports that it is "tradition to present the graduate with a corsage or boutonniere prior to the graduation ceremony, or a bouquet of flowers afterwards." Select a bouquet or corsage of a graduate's favorite flowers. As for gifts, useful, thoughtful gifts are appreciated and expected near the graduation day or on the actual day. It is proper to mail it or deliver it to the graduate's house, recommends The Emily Post Institute.

References

• Emily Post Institute: Graduation Etiquette