Psychology of Attracting Men
Attraction is a complex process that is slightly different for everyone. Some people focus more on looks, while others are attracted by brains or personality. Many people seek a mate that shares their interests. While it is impossible to predict exactly what will attract a specific person, you can take steps to make yourself more appealing overall.
Other People Are Reading
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Looks
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You do not need to be a supermodel to attract men. Look around at the next party you attend. The most popular girl is most likely not the most superficially beautiful. As long as you are clean and neat, celebrate your own style. Put your own best self forward rather than trying to chase fads or external definitions of beauty.
Personality
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Be true to yourself. Modern men are not looking for giggling girls who agree with everything they say. Develop your own passions, interests and opinions, and let them shine through. Men respect women who are comfortable with their own thoughts and feelings. Avoid putting on airs or attempting to remake your personality to suit what you think a particular man is seeking.
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Intellect
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Whether male or female, some people are naturally focused on intellectual topics and some are not. Wherever you fall on the spectrum, remain true to yourself. Do not tackle topics that bore you just to impress a potential mate, and do not suppress your own intellect. Very few men today want vapid, brainless mates. Men are looking for partners in a relationship who have the skills to solve problems.
Sense of Humor
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Men consistently rank a good sense of humor as an important quality in a mate but are split on the type of humor that they prefer. Some people possess a razor-sharp wit, others are sarcastic. Develop your own sense of humor, and laugh frequently. Not only will it make you more attractive, but laughter is great for your own health.
Putting It All Together
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The key to becoming more attractive to men is to become the best person you can be. Instead of looking externally for validation, work on developing yourself into a person that you like. If you are comfortable in your own skin, have well-defined interests and opinions, and approach life with a can-do attitude, then you will attract many people of both genders. There is no magic formula for attracting men, only a winning recipe for self-awareness and growth.
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ladysabrina
Dec 23, 2009
Hello There I like your last point, about putting it all together. When you are the best you can be and try to maximize your potential, you do really magnetize more people to you. Also, when you are happy you seem to attract more people. A Fine Article !
