About African-American Weddings

An African-American wedding is similar to those in most cultures, as it is a ceremony to unite a man and woman in marriage. The ways African-Americans celebrate their unions is varied, but is usually marked by a merger of both families. African-American weddings borrow heavily from the traditions established during the time of slavery.

Types

Traditionally, African-American weddings took place in the presence of family and loved ones. During slavery, it was against the law for slaves to marry, so it was a quiet affair that did not take place in a church. After slavery, African-Americans began marrying in churches, and it was usually a big affair, with the entire community taking part in the event. African American weddings have since expanded to include elopement and courthouse marriages. Two new trends include destination weddings and marrying in non-religious venues, including hotels and gardens.

Features

Many African-American weddings have a huge wedding party, with over a dozen bridesmaids and groomsmen. The typical African-American bride is dressed in a traditional white dress with veil. The groom wears black, although recent trends lean toward the groom also wearing white. African-American weddings are typified by a big after-wedding reception for the families. It is a throwback to African tradition, where heavy emphasis was placed on the family.

History

As a nod to American slave tradition, many African-American weddings include a "jumping the broom." It is a long-held tradition that slaves jumped a house broom in the presence of witnesses to indicate that they were married. Most African-American weddings are a fusion between European and African traditions. Some couples choose to wear West African inspired Kente cloth in addition to their traditional Western clothing.

Benefits

There are three main benefits to African-American weddings. The first benefit is that it strengthens the community. The second benefit brought by African-American weddings is that it often brings children into the community, and those children will have a powerful role model for a romantic relationship. The third benefit is that African-American weddings reinforce a positive message of commitment.

Significance

African-Americans who decide to wed proclaim an important message to the community. The commitment a couple has to each other is of great significance to the rest of society, because it models a healthy, nonfanciful relationship. African-American weddings continue to evolve, but the powerful element of family continues to play a prominent role.